What do I mean when I said “Don’t say what you mean”
What I mean is “Say What You Want!!!”
One of my friends made major purchase as a present for himself (e.g. new shirts, watches, etc.) after series of hard work to achieve certain goals. Listen to how my friend response to his friend comment’s
His friend comment: “Wohh.. You got a lot of money and really rich Huh.” (With sarcastic tonality)
He responded: “Oh… no no no lah… I just …” (With shy tonality)
When you reply with that words and tonality, your energy has been sucked by “Emotional Vampire” already
Have you ever encounterd those “Emotional Vampire” lately? They are everywhere those negative people.
What I rather encourage you to do is
1) Accept the way you are by saying “Oh, thank you, yes I deserve this because…” and
2) Say what you want “Yes, I’m planning to get richer this year by…”
With this response, you won’t be bit by the Vampire; your energy and self image will still remain on solid ground.
PS: I write this post in the morning, because every morning my brain processor speed seems to work faster than normal. How about your? What time of the day that your brain works fastest? During driving, after 1AM or taking bathe?
December 23rd, 2005 at 6:34 am
Perhaps your mind is moving way too fast Uncle Paiboon!! Why didn’t you just go ahead and say:
“Say what you Want to Mean” or “Say What you Mean to Want”
What if what I want to say is what I want to mean?
Will the Vampire come sucking? You know it’s so apt when you talk about this in terms of Vampire and all.
Coz we all know that the Vampire can ONLY enter one’s physical compound when it is INVITED…there, permission has to be given.
That means we all have a choice…because Nobody has the PERMISSION to make me feel bad
December 23rd, 2005 at 7:35 am
Mean is very mean sometime, but it just a mean to the end. Merry XMAS
Remember? Vampire will use all seduction skill to stir up your emotion and get an invitation.
“No-Permission-To-Make-Me-Feel-Bad” Meta Program will create “This-is-what-I-want, Take-it-or-leave-it” attitude for you to overcome those white blood sucking teeth.
January 19th, 2006 at 8:49 pm
Intersting post. I stumbled upon your blog whilst doing a search on msn for something completely different, but I am glad I have found it and I have spent the past 30 mins reading previous posts.
Keep up the good work and best of luck with your blog.
Wayne.
June 3rd, 2006 at 3:04 pm
Great job guys… Thank for you work…